6 Things Every New Mom Needs

New mommies seriously go through the struggle the first month or so of being a mom. A newborn may not seem like a lot of work. They sleep for most of the day, they can't crawl (so you can't continuously chase them around), they just poop and eat. Not much right. But, most of that work comes from trying to keep an eye on them, getting rest, and getting things done around the house. By the way, if you're currently preggo and it's almost time... you should definitely put those nesting skills to work! You'll be organized and the house will be be clean and ready for baby. 
Anyway here's 6 things every new mom needs.

SLEEP!

Oh my gosh, when I say I did not sleep at all the first two weeks of being a new mom, I am not kidding. I was so nervous and he had some acid reflux which made my nerves even worse. That whole "sleep when the baby sleeps" advice did not work out too well with me. Naturally I was up throughout the whole day and my pumpkin was confused about the whole "day and night" new situation, haha. So he would sleep all day, and be up for majority of the night, waking up at the worse times. Make sure you have someone there for at least those first few days to a week to keep an eye on the baby, do things around the house, etc. so you can rest and nurse (breastfeeding can make you really tired).

POST NATAL MASSAGE

O-M-G. I really wish I had did this. My joints and back were so out of whack and sore for like a month after I gave birth. I'm pretty sure a prenatal massage would've taken care of that. I was just in so much pain, could not lay down on my back or on my right side without being in pain. So please, do yourself a favor mommy and treat yourself to a nice massage.

ME-TIME

 All moms deserve a little me time. New moms always have their attention, focus, and time dedicated to their little one. But, ladies, it's super important to take care of yourself first. Make sure you get a couple of hours to get your thoughts together and focus on yourself. Read a book, take a walk, just breathe. 

MANI/PEDI

A mani/pedi is a great relaxation trick. Plus you'll feel a little extra special once you see your favorite color on your nails!

A NICE HOT SHOWER

I don't care what any one says, when you have a new baby. Even the little things we do on a daily basis can become an issue. I know so many women that have testified that they wouldn't get a shower in for a couple days because they were wrapped up with the baby. But again, it's so important to take care of yourself. I know your little one is all that's on your mind at this early stage of mother hood. But, try to take a shower honey. Get your hubby to watch the baby or your mom while you get that shower in. 

LOVE/INTIMACY

Of course after you have the baby, all eyes and attention will definitely be on him/her. But, every mom will have that moment like " Hello?!?! What about me?! I'm here too!" It's not being selfish but you did go through a major physical, emotional, and mental transition in your life. Make sure your hubby is giving you love too and you do the same for him. A lot of new daddies can feel neglected so always make him feel special.
Get your parents to watch the baby for a few hours while you and your hubby grab a bite to eat together, watch a movie, cuddle, just take some time to love on each other. [No sexual intercourse for six weeks, sorry! :( ]